Nothing is worse than getting dressed up and putting on your best perfume, only to have a terrible date. In those instances, you can’t let your night go to waste. The first step is getting out of the bad date you’re on. You can’t be too obvious, but you also can’t let too much time pass by. The art of getting out of a bad date is a delicate dance, but easily achievable.
While bad dates are an inevitable part of the dating journey, the key is to navigate them with grace and poise. These smooth and clever exit strategies will help you escape a less-than-ideal situation, while maintaining your dignity and leaving the door open for more positive experiences in the future.
Emergency Text or Call
One classic and effective method is the emergency text or call. Arrange with a friend beforehand to be your savior in case you need an exit strategy.
Set up a code phrase that you will text them, if you need saving. Soon after they will text or call you with an “urgent matter” that needs to be handled as soon as possible. Apologize to your date and explain the situation, ensuring a quick and graceful exit.
Time-Conscious Prior Commitments
Create an illusion of a pre-existing commitment by mentioning an early meeting, work engagement or other obligation. This not only allows you to exit gracefully, but also conveys that you value your time and responsibilities.
Once you’ve subtly introduced your time-conscious commitment, smoothly guide the conversation toward wrapping up the date. Regardless of the reason you choose, express genuine gratitude for the time spent together. This ensures you leave on a positive note, even if the date itself wasn’t ideal.
Allergic Reaction Escape
In a pinch, excuse yourself with a creative twist by mentioning an unexpected allergic reaction.
Whether it’s to something you ate or a mysterious allergy flare-up, blaming a sudden health concern is a unique and non-confrontational way to exit a bad date. Express gratitude, apologize for the inconvenience and make your departure swiftly.
Honesty with Tact
Sometimes making up a lie isn’t something everyone is down to do. If you’re comfortable, being honest with tact is always an option. Choose your words carefully, expressing that you appreciate the time spent, but feel a lack of connection or chemistry. This approach ensures transparency and may help your date understand your perspective.